May 28, 2010

What's in Your Back Pack~Controlling What You Can

This week might be one of my favorite weeks to teach. I learned about "Back Packs" about 10 years ago, and it was life changing for me.
Learning to control what you can and let go of things you can't control is not only freeing, it's smart!

I taught this lesson alone this week as Glenda was on a rode trip back to Canada. Funny thing about that is that she is the one who taught it to me all those years ago. I guess it's every teachers dream that her student would go on to teach the lessons that she imparted!

At first look, clients wonder what "back packs" have to do with weight loss. It doesn't take long to begin to understand the concept. The more you understand about self-control, personal responsibility and emotional ownership, the easier it is to make choices for yourself regarding your weight loss program.

As we began to look at the 12 things we are responsible for, in control of, and are to take ownership of, I had to laugh at the test we've all been put through lately...something that is completely out of our control. The weather! Living in the Northwest is an opportunity to carry your own weather around inside of you. How's everybody doing with that one lately?

But on a serious note. I see clients, friends and family, using all their time, and energy on things out side of their control. Those things appear to get bigger and bigger, because we have no control over them, and we appear to get smaller and smaller. The things that we DO have control of...the 12 things in our back pack are the ONLY things that will help us become the women and men we were intended to be. Strong, healthy and full of love.

We talked about the difference between feeling responsible TO others and feeling responsible FOR others. I encourage you to look at the chart on the back of this important control guide and work to become a person who is responsible to others.

This is a lesson that you will want to share with your children, your spouses and everyone you spend time with. I pray that it will be as life changing for you as it was and is for me.

Don't forget to join us next week at noon or 6 PM for 'Coping Skills~Feeling Your Way Through Life'.

Always encouraging you,
Letha

May 21, 2010

Change Your Thinking~Change Your Life

Last week we learned that in order to change your actions permanently, you have to change your belief system. This week, we're focusing on your thought life.

We tackled 4 things in our short 30 minute class on Thursday:

Motivation
Goals and Rewards
Positive Thinking
Mental Conditioning

We all agreed that losing weight and keeping it off for life is one of the hardest things we've ever done...so the questions is, How do you prepared for that? This week we are focusing on necessary steps to be successful at not only starting this weight loss journey, but reaching your destination as well!

Motivation:
As I sit with clients week after week, I see a common theme with clients who are not losing weight. They have lost their motivation. Knowing WHY you want to lose weight and keeping those reasons in the fore front of your mind is critical for weight loss success. There are many ways to keep motivation high. What ever those ways are for you, keep doing them! We all have different motives as to why we want to lose weight...the key is to keep motivation alive! Motivation is in the doing! What can you do this week to elevate your motivation?

Goals and Rewards:
Setting goals and rewarding yourself are proven methods in changing your beliefs permanently. Everything we do, we do out of our need to seek pleasure or avoid pain, the problem is,our society believes that over eating is pleasure and eating in moderation is painful. At our Thursday classes, I had clients speak out words connected to over eating. I heard, guilt, shame, poor health, pain, and tears. I had clients speak words connected to eating in moderation. I heard, happiness, peace, health, clothes fit, and confidence. That is the truth...we just don't believe it!
Linking pleasure(rewards) to your new healthy life style and pain to your old unhealthy habits will begin to change your belief system and help you keep this weight off.
Rewards are a must!

Positive Thinking:
You won't catch me in a conversation with someone about permanent change, without hearing me talk about our thought life! Choosing positive thoughts will promote positive actions! How we think about ourselves has EVERYTHING to do with losing weight and keeping it off. The good news is that we have a choice every minute of every day about our thoughts. This little girl has it figured out...we could learn a thing or two from her.
Check it out! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qR3rKOkZFkg

Mental Conditioning:
This is the first week of your mental conditioning exercises. No great accomplishments have happened without first the visions of them! The subconscious mind is powerful. What ever you force into it on a regular basis, it believes. Adding this piece to your Healthy Weigh program could be a key to your success.

Great effort goes into great accomplishments. I encourage you to spend time this week on your thinking...it will change your life!

Join us next Thursday, for "Back Packs~Controlling What you Can". Noon or 6 PM

Always encouraging you.
Letha

May 14, 2010

Changing Your Beliefs~The Key to Permanent Weight Loss

This week we began our 6 week class at The Healthy Weigh. Glenda and I are excited about processing the six new personal control guides with you. Our plan is to present the new guide each Thursday, and review it with you the following Thursday, so that you have time to listen and then work on the personal reflection. A lot of great classes, workshops and support groups happen at The Healthy Weigh, but it's your personal reflection and work that makes the difference!

Beginning this weight loss journey by looking backwards is crucial. The beliefs we have regarding ourselves, our relationship with food and so many other things, determine our success with losing weight and more importantly keeping it off. The key to changing in the present is understanding our past.

Sometimes we resist looking at our past because we are afraid that in some way we will be dishonoring our parents. The search for truth, never requires that we dishonor those who raise us. In fact, distorting our memory of those early years through either denial or idealizing is what really dishonors the past, because it makes the past unreal. We must become fearless in our search for the truth, knowing that the truth, truly does set us free. The search for truth is never an excuse to blame or to confront-it's our search, and it's purpose lies within us.

If you've started this journey with us, I want to encourage you to go for it! Don't back away! You'll come away 6 weeks from now with great insight and a positive attitude towards your future, If you are still on the outside looking in...come in. We invite you to participate in the next 5 weeks!

Being set free is an awesome thing. Won't you join us?

Email me with questions or thoughts...I'd love to hear from you. You can also comment to this blog. I encourage that as well. letha@healthyweigh.com

Until next week.
Always encouraging you.
Letha

May 7, 2010

It's All New at The Healthy Weigh

Great things are happening at The Healthy Weigh! This week we introduced our new and improved program. All new materials with a fresh new feeling! More importantly, we've re-written the Personal Control Guides to dove tail the CD series. We are convinced that working with these new guides and continuing to follow the outstanding nutritional plan is the key to permanent weight loss.

If you don't have the CD series and personal control guide # 1 yet...'Changing Your Beliefs, The Key to Permanent Weight Loss'...there's still time!
We are starting a FREE 6 week class Thursday May 13th, to review all 6 of the new guides as you journey through them. This will be an outstanding opportunity for you to get the most out of these new guides! Our classes will be held at noon or 6 PM for the next 6 Thursdays. The only requirement we have for you to attend is that you own the CD series, 'Change Your Thinking Change Your Life'. No need to sign up...just show up!

Another great addition to our program starting May 1st is that all clients who sign up for our e newsletter will receive an email from me every Friday, linking them to my blog,"Encouragement from Letha". I hope to do all I can to offer up inspiration and hope as you continue this weight loss journey.

As we seek to improve the program at The Healthy Weigh, I am more convinced than ever, that we have what you need to not only lose your weight, but keep it off for life.

I welcome comments and ideas for possible blog subjects. You are the focus of my writing and continued learning.

Here's to a great weekend and a life filled week ahead!
Always Encouraging You.
Letha